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Matthew was born during a violent time in Irish history. In June of 1798 a series of battles between England and Irish rebels centering around Enniscorthy resulted in the deaths of 20,000 of the Irish citizens of County Wexford. Considering the fact that the population in Wexford at that time was 125,000, this was indeed a devastating impact on the lives of everyone who lived there and who survived to continue, at least for my ancestry.
It was from this violent and devastating atmosphere that Matthew grew up and married a woman named Catherine, in Enniscorthy. On May 7, 1826, their son John Murphy was born. Although I have no data to support this, John eventually made his way from Enniscorthy to Newark where he married Margaret in 1850.
If John emigrated shortly before his marriage in Newark, then we have some idea of why he may have left Ireland. The period between 1845 and 1852 marks another devastating time in Irish history known as the Great Potato Famine. These were times of extreme poverty when 30% of the Irish populace had nothing to eat except potatoes. A disease attacked the potato crops starting in 1845 and continued for several years. This, along with Britain's indifference for the welfare of their Irish neighbors, caused tens of thousands to starve to death. Faced with the prospect of starvation, many chose to flee to the promise of a better life in other countries, including America. Perhaps this is what drove John to leave Enniscorthy and sail to America.
By August of 1850, John was living with the Cox family in the South Ward of the City of Newark in N.J. He was employed as a cabitnetmaker. Margaret Murphy lived nearby with the Blauvelt family. The 1850 Federal Census indicates she could neither read nor write. Shortly after, on September 26, 1850, John and Margaret were married at St. Patrick's Roman Catholic Church, located at 91 Washington Street in Newark.
I have no evidence whether John and Margaret knew each other before arriving in America. For that matter, I don't know when Margaret arrived or where in Ireland she came from. On her marriage certificate she listed her father as Miles Murphy; her mother's name was Jane.
John and Margaret had 5 children that I know of: John E. Murphy, born June 23, 1851; Catherine Murphy, born October 1852; Mary Elizabeth Murphy , born February 1860; Matthew F. Murphy (my great-grandfather), born February 1863; and another Mary Murphy, born 1869. By 1880 they were living at 95 Prospect Street in Newark.
The first Mary was listed on the 1860 census, but not the 1870 one, so she must have died sometime between. The second Mary was 1 year old on the 1870 census but she was no longer showing on the 1880 census. Obviously, she too must have died between 1870 and 1880. There are also large gaps between Catherine (1852) and Mary Elizabeth (1860), and between Matthew (1863) and the second Mary (1869). I have not been able to find any death records for anyone other than John E. and Matthew. I can only guess that there may have been other children who didn't live long enough to appear on the censuses.
On June 15, 1887, Matthew F. Murphy married Mary Ellen McCarthy at St. James Roman Catholic Church, located at 143 Madison Street in Newark. Matthew worked as a salesman for many years before eventually taking a job as a stock clerk for the gas company.
On January 9, 1890, John Murphy, still living with Margaret at 95 Prospect Street, died there at the age of 63. On October 1 of that same year, 37-year-old Catherine married a house painter named Joseph Harrold in the same church as her parents. They lived at 19 Summit Street in Newark. On February 23, 1894, Margaret died. She was 66 years old. Margaret and John are buried together at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Newark along with John E. Murphy who died at the age of 60 on July 12, 1911 during a deadly heatwave.
Sometime between 1900 and 1910, Joseph Harrold died. the last reference I have of Catherine is that she was widowed and still living at the house on Summit Street in 1910.
Matthew and Mary Ellen raised seven children while living first at 85 Jefferson Street in Newark, and later at 77 Murray Street. The children were: Marguerite Murphy, born July 28, 1888; Helen J. Murphy, born August 7, 1890; Joseph Francis Murphy, born on Christmas Eve 1892; Marie A. Murphy, born June 2, 1895; Grace A. Murphy, born October 10, 1896; John M. Murphy (my grandfather), born on February 16, 1898; and Eugene V. Murphy, born August 4, 1903.
Other than my grandfather, I know very little about the others. Marguerite died at the age of 8 on March 22, 1897. I have no idea what caused her death. By 1930, Matthew and Mary Ellen were living at 77 Murray Street in Newark. Four of their adult unwed children lived with them: 39-year-old Helen; 37-year-old Joseph, who worked as a foreman for a construcion firm; 33-year-old Grace, who was employed as a bank stenographer; and 26-year-old Eugene, a clerk for an insurance company. When my grandfather died in 1963, his obituary shows that Helen (73), Joseph (71), Marie (68), and Eugene (59) were still alive, but that Grace was not.
Matthew died on April 6, 1933; Mary Ellen on November 20, 1937. Joseph and Helen died in 1970. Eugene died in December 1971. I recall that he suffered from Parkinsons' Disease. All are buried at Holy Sepulchre Cemetery in Newark. Marie married Paul Vierling, but I don't know when. Marie died in 1989 at the age of 90. She is buried at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in East Hanover, NJ.
My grandfather John Michael Murphy was of medium height and build, with brown hair and eyes. Early in his career he worked as a machinist in Newark. By 1930, he was working for the telephone company.
John married Frances Smith on November 21, 1925, at the Blessed Sacrament church in Newark. Frances' family name was Dyszkiewicz but she and several of her siblings changed their name to Smith. Her father was Lawrence Dyszkiewicz and her mother Marya Mazurkiewicz; both were born in Poland. Lawrence had died the year before the wedding. At the time, Frances and her mother lived at 644 South Eleventh Street, while John lived with his family at 77 Murray Street. John's sister, Marie Murphy, was Frances' only attendant, while John's brother, Eugene Murphy, was his best man.
For some reason, Frances always called John "Harry".
On October 22, 1928, John and Frances' only child was born, my father, William (Bill) Joseph Murphy. Shortly after his birth, the family moved to 55 Kuna Terrace in Irvington, NJ.
Bill grew up during the Great Depression and World War II. By the late 1940's, the family was living at 244 Isabella Avenue in Irvington. It was around this time that Bill enlisted in the Army and served in the Korean War with the 1st Calvary Division, 5th Calvary Regiment, 3rd Battalion, Company 'M'. During his service, he earned the Korean Service Medal with three stars, the United Nations Service Medal and the Purple Heart.
Following his honorable discharge from the Army, Bill found employment with United Parcel Service delivering packages. A frequent customer was my great-grandfather, William Bittlingmeier, who found young Bill Murphy to be a polite, clean-cut and good-looking individual, and a possible match for his 20-year-old granddaughter, Jacqueline (Jackie) Bogner, daughter of Jacob (Jack) Bogner and Margaret Bittlingmeier. Jackie was born in Newark on October 15, 1933. The Bogners lived at 10 Silver Street in Newark. Jackie attended the Lincoln Grammer School and West Side High School (Class of 1950) in Newark. She worked for a time as an executive secretary.
William Bittlingmeier invited young Bill to his house and arranged to have Jackie there, also. Jackie and Bill's first impressions of each other were not favorable; Jackie acted very snobbish. But there were a few more "meetings" before he finally asked her for a date.
Following their marriage, Jackie and Bill lived in Newark for a short time, where my twin sister Lee and I were born. Not long afterwards, we all moved briefly to Belmar, NJ, then to Middletown, NJ, where Bill and Jackie lived until moving to Brielle in 1982.
John and Frances were still living at 244 Isabella Avenue in Irvington when he died on December 7, 1963. He was 65 years old. Frances died five years later on December 16, 1968, at the age of 69. They are buried together at Gate of Heaven Cemetery in East Hanover. It must have been extremely depressing to lose both parents right before Christmas, but for the sake of his own children, my father never showed any sadness during these two particular holidays.
Bill worked for UPS before finding employment with the Bell Atlantic telephone company and eventually became manager of their motor vehicle operations in Freehold, NJ. He worked for Bell Atlantic for 43 years before retiring in 1990. He was a member of the Telephone Pioneers of America and the American Association of Retired Persons.
After raising her family, Jackie worked for ten years as a travel agent at Accent on Travel in Deal, NJ. Using her skills as an executive secretary, she often wrote notes to the other agents in shorthand, much to the consternation of those who couldn't read them. She was only 61 years old when she died of a heart attack on September 21, 1994. Dad died of a stroke and the effects of high blood pressure on November 30, 2000. He was 72 years old. They are buried together in a mausoleum at St. Catherine's Cemetery in Sea Girt, N.J.